My crush told me she is depressed after canceling the date for today, tips to help her ?

Long story short, I m 19 and there is a girl i ve been talking with (17) on facebook for a while, she studies at the same highschool I recently graduated from. We were supposed to go get a coffee today but she wrote me at around 10 am saying she can t come because she has homework and other stuff to do, I knew it was bullshit, all I said was “ok ): “, she probably realised it was a bad excuse afterwards and told me that she really is super shy and got somewhat depressed to a point she is not very confortable leaving the house, she feels worthless and feels like everyone is judging her, looking at her and all that teenage drama crap. I told her that I can relate and I was the same 2-3 years ago and even tho I can tell she is not confortable going out with me yet she can count on me for support and stuff, we preceed to talk for another hour and then she said she has to go in the class, she ended by saying something like “Isn t it strange that people can change their emotions so fast?” and thanked me for making her feel better.
However, how can I help her feel confortable near me to the point we could go out together (or with anyone for that matter, i wanna help her) she said that she doesn t like to talk to her parents about it and she doesn t really have close friends. I m not an extrovert myself so I can relate to everything she said but I don t know how to make her feel better (so this experience would bring us together perhaps?)

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