Should I date my brother in law?

Hi I am Tara a 32 year old mother with 2 children the one is 2 and the other is 9. Their father was a great man he was a police officer for 10 years. Last year he got a call about about a bank robbery so he got there and was shot or arrival. I lost the love of my life that night. A month after it happened his brother came to my house who we have not seen for 2 years to apologize and comfort me. Well he has been living with us since then and is such a great help plus he is funny, nice, an amazing cook, and a great friend. He kissed me last night and I stopped him and went to my room. I really think I like him but I feel it would be wrong to date my dead husbands brother.

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